The Happiness Formula
Could there be a formula for happiness? Can it be that simple?
Almost! Science has been studying what makes people happy for over fifty
years. But it wasn't until the last decade, with the introduction of
Positive Psychology, that the science of happiness really took off.
Dr. Martin Seligman, founder of Positive Psychology, the study of positive
emotions, strengths and healthy institutions, has discovered that it is possible
to feel more satisfaction, meaning and higher hopes. How? By
following a simple formula you can actually make yourself happier. Sound
too good to be true?
Why not try it? The formula is this: H=S+C+V.
Happiness = Biological Setpoint + Conditions + Voluntary Activities
Conditions (C) are the conditions of your life. They are those you
don't have too much control over, like your gender, race and age and those you
do have some control over, like where you live, your financial status or who
you're married to.
According to the equation if you increase the areas you can, for instance C
or V, your happiness quotient will go up.
Here are five conditions that researchers have found may
increase your happiness:
1. Noise: Noise that is variable or intermittent throws our concentration off
and increases stress. Find some quiet time or make sure you aren't exposed
to this kind of noise and you increase the value of "C".
2 Commuting: Who wants to get caught in a traffic jam every day?
Traffic-filled commutes increase the release of stress hormones and lower your
happiness.
3. Lack of Control: Both noise and a heavy duty commute are out of your
control. Researchers have found that when people have control they
are more likely to feel happy, while people who do not have control give up more
easily and are less likely to feel happy. If you are feeling out of
control, find something that you can control, like going for a walk or calling a
friend to say hello. Even better make a list of reasons why you feel
grateful for her friendship and then mail it to her anonymously!
4. Shame: People who feel ashamed of how they look attempt to hide offending
anatomical parts. However, people who have had plastic surgery to augment
the offending body part are more satisfied, happier and less likely to seek
psychiatric interventions. Does that mean you need to go out and get
plastic surgery? Only if you want to. What it does suggest is that
you need to accept what you've been blessed with.
5. Relationships: This one is a no-brainer! Ever gone for a walk with a
girlfriend and not felt happier? Scientists have found that when a young
girl talks on the phone to a girlfriend she gets a massive dose of oxytocin and
dopamine. The amount of neurochemicals released are more than what is
released during an orgasm! Friendships make us happy, period!
For more information on the happiness formula check out
Dr.
Seligman's website and take some of his questionnaires. For some
interesting BBC reports on the
Happiness
Formula click here.
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